my wages pay everything and we use his on a weekly basis and save from them. After December he will have to put around �100 to the mortgage which is fine. I have asked him about giving each of us so much on a weekly basis but he does not want this. I have also suggested we split bills etc 50/50 and also save a certain amount each month but he does not this as he will have less than me to play with. I cannot win at the moment.