Decisions need to be joint decisions and work well for both of you. If you hate the location, and he's forcing you to go, why can't he find another job that is more in the middle? If it comes down to him wanting to be somewhere and you hating that location, maybe it just wasn't meant to be. In terms of jobs, there are millions of jobs available. People take less-than-ideal jobs all the time to make things better for their family or schedule or so on. So if someone is prioritizing a job over everything else, that's a warning sign to me.