My oldest, the autistic, is 4 and half. His little brother (normal but literal-minded) is nearly 3. So far we have managed without mention of Santa.
I don't want to pretend that Santa is real. I plan to tell them "the story of Santa" to tell them about Santa Claus. It will tell them about the reindeer, Santa, etc, but I will be very clear that it's a story (like other fairy tales etc). What age should I start this? I am a bit worried that he will announce "Santa not real, just a story!" out and about if he sees a man dressed as Santa (and I don't want him spoiling it for other kids who might actually believe in Santa). Should I just continue for this Christmas without mentioning Santa and just hoping they won't be interested? Any ideas? Anyone been through this before?
