I need advice...My girlfriend and I broke up 2 1/2 yrs ago. She moved on with another relationship almost immediately after our break up. During the course of their relationship (2 1/2 yrs) we remained connected via texting and an occasional phone call. Her GF found out we were texting and told her to change her number and to no longer text me.... well she's texted me anyway and gave me her new number...she told me "WE NEED TO STAY CONNECTED WE NEED TO KEEP OUR LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN, ALWAYS." Last month her GF broke up with her and has moved on with another relationship. (info I discovered via Facebook)wonderful FB lol....I've also discovered via FB that my EX's posting seem VERY HEARTBROKEN over their break up. Yet when we text (as sporadic as it's become)when I ask her what's wrong she says, "nothing honey, i'm just so tired from work and not feeling very good lately" ok....now, since their break up last month my EX has asked me if I'd like to come and see her? and that it's been TOO long (2 1/2 yrs) since her and I saw each other...NOW keep this in mind my EX doesn't live close to me, were about 277 miles apart.I drive a BIG truck, imagine the GAS??? Yeah....Exactly.... Since their split,she is presently staying with a friend so she doesn't have her own place, which mean, I am paying for a hotel/motel for our "visit" she claims "to have no extra money" and that her EX has put her in debt! This visit would be 3 days long, and I've requested to use my vacation time from work....I NEED HELP! Not sure what I want to do here....Yes I'd love to see her! But I cant help but feel I'm the REBOUND girl! Not sure what I should do...I've got mixed feelings. Part of me wants this and the other part says, "No don't do it your gonna get hurt" WHAT SHOULD I DO???