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we just adopted a 6 yr old Boston Terrier (neutered male) from a rescue place. We brought him home yesterday and he wasnt in the house 2 minutes and he took off after my 11 y/o cat. I have 2 cats 11 and 8 months. The 11 y/o cat is used to dogs, the kitten isnt and hides everytime she see's one. The dog took off after my 11 y/o cat and chased her under the bed, I think he was trying to play with her. The dog has never seen a cat before. Under the bed there was alot of hissing and I was trying to seperate them by reaching under the bed...the cat finally ran out, she was slobbery wet and the dog was bleeding. the cat scratched him under the eye..he is OK, his eye wasnt injured. Now both my cats are hiding and wont come out, the older cat seems traumatized. I think my dog just wanted to play and he is a hyper dog so he didnt give the cats time to get used to him...I think he went right into "wanna play" mode. I brought my older cat out today and she cowered on her cat perch and when she saw the dog, she ran away under the bed again. I was holding the dog so he couldnt get to her but he wanted to badly. I was hoping after a couple of weeks they would all get used to each other but Im worried that they wont. Its only been 2 days since weve had the dog. has anyone elses dogs or cats gotten off to a start like this? How did it end up? thanks.
Kim
PS...both my cats are declawed in the front, but not the back.

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Getting established pets used to a new pet is always tough frown

You say he's never seen a cat before.... you've got the tough job of teaching an older, hyper dog with hunter instincts that those furry creatures running from him are not toys or targets. Cats and dogs definitely have different ideas of "play" and "Godzilla-dog-home-invasion".... it can be tough especially when you have a hyper dog.

Also tough that it's a smaller dog ... terriers were generally bred for catching rats, so it can be REALLY difficult to bring a dog whose first instincts is to chase into a home with cats - whose first instincts is to run. I think the end result is dependent on the individual animals (and I can't stand it when people generalize!), but you might have a tough road in front of you. From all advice and experiences I've known, larger dogs are usually better with animals like cats - while a terrier has an instinct that says "Catch!!" a herding dog has an instinct that says "Protect!"

That said... it might be slow going. Since the cats were there first and are ultimately more breakable than the dog, I'd say start by establishing them as higher in the pack than the dog. (Both my cats outrank my dogs in the pecking order. The cattle dogs have to respect the cats, play nice, and that's the end of it - it's too easy for them to get hurt even accidentally.) Remember that the cats are going to defend themselves -- that's not aggression, that's self-preservation. Feed them first. Acknowledge them first. Dogs have huge respect for pack order, so putting them on the top might teach him some respect.

Are you crating him? We keep our dogs crated overnight while the cats have free run -- it was a great way to get them used to each other. My kitten STILL insists on trying to charge the dogs, but at this point they know there's a boundary where they can't hurt each other, but they can size each other up and get to know each other safely. My boy dog defaults into play mode, too -- and crating was a good way to teach him that he was under NO circumstances to chase the cats or play rough with the cats -- he's still a little nuts and needs to be yelled at every so often, but fortunately there's never been any blood or injuries.

I'd recommend - don't let them loose around each other. Keep the dog leashed when he's not crated - this way you have control over the situation until he learns that chasing the cats is a no-no. Since it doesn't sound like the cats are aggressive toward him, focus on changing his behavior toward them. They probably see him as scary and as a threat now, so it might take a while for them to get comfortable enough around him to accept him.

Hope that helps? I'd definitely, definitely suggest crating -- it's all going to be able controlling him and controlling the situation. Even if it seems mean, he needs to learn the rules of his new house and how to share it.


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thanks Debra, we do have a crate but we only put him in it when we leave the house. He is a good dog in the house, no accidents. If he didnt chase the cats I probably wouldnt crate him at all. he sleeps in our bed at night. We dont know much about his past but we think he may have been a sire in a puppy mill, he is very greatful for everything we do for him...the first night we had him, we put him in our bed and he looked scared, he only stayed for about 1/2 hour then left and slept in his bed in the living room. the 2nd night he slept with us all night. He is constantly looking for attention, he follows us around the house or sits by us and wants to be petted all the time...I dont think he got much attention before we got him. He went after the kitten today and my husband reprimanded him, my hubby yelled and buster stopped short and he listened to my husband...I think there is hope that they will all get along..right now the cats are so afraid to come out of hiding but I think it will be a slow process but I think in the long run they will get along...my older cat did come out of hiding today and was sitting on a chair, my hubby held the dog and let them get nose to nose, then the cat ran away and back into hiding. Buster wants so badly to please us (a Boston Terrier trait) that I think he will learn to be nice to the kittys. It will be a slow process. thanks again.
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well, he went after the cat twice today, one time he had a mouth full of fur and I got bit by the cat in the process. When I yelled at him he didnt listen to me this time. I thought we were making progress. I know its only been 3 days and Im sure Im expecting too much too soon....while I was typing this he went after the cat again...I think he was trying to bite her, I dont think it was playing this time. Not sure what to do and Im afraid I might have to return him to the rescue place if this doesnt stop.

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Sounds like it's not going well frown

This part I'm not sure about, but I wonder if the stubbornness has something to do with being an unneutered male for so long? Our boy was insane when he was a puppy - every kind of obnoxious there was. Once he was neutered he settled down.... but if they go for long enough unneutered I'm sure part of the crazy becomes their personality... combined with the instinct to chase, that might not be a combination for success :-/

It's tough.... a dog like him sounds like he would be the perfect pet in a household where he can be the only one... but might have trouble with other animals. He sounds like he has a winning personality... but might be just used to being so dominate that he's not going to give in to the cats. I would definitely say crating is the way to go, and keeping them separate to make sure no one gets hurt :-/


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Sorry, that completely crashed in the middle of what I was typing!

It sucks when animals aren't a perfect fit for us, especially when we get so invested in falling in love at first sight when we see them. I went through the same thing trying to bring home a pit bull.... my dogs would have no part of sharing with the new dog, but are best friends with our cats.

I'd say if things aren't improving in the least.... consider how happy he's going to be in the home, how stressful this is on everyone, and see if you might be better off returning him frown As heartbreaking as it is, it's not cruel if it's just not working. Meh.... I'm sorry frown


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