My SS has a bad violent temper and friday I asked him to lower the tv and he started screaming at me, usually I walk away and ignore him, this time I snapped and started yelling back. SS is 20 yrs old and over 6 feet tall. so I started yelling back at him and told him he cant talk to me like that and Im tired of his [censored]. He said he was leaving and when he walked past me he pushed me, I hit him back. My husband got into the middle of us and I yelled at my SS to get out. He left but came back, then he got violent and screaming again so I called 911, the cops showed up and we told them everything was ok now, we didnt tell them about the drugs. We did tell the cops he was leaving and was going to stay at his moms...he is no longer allowed in this house. I left the house yesterday for a couple of hours so he could come over and pack up more things. today, I went into his room to clean it up and I normally dont snoop but figured this time I had every right too, so I looking around his room and found 2 bottles of booze and more drugs. I dont know what kind of drugs they are...one is a black oval shape, solid, a little bigger then my fingernail, the other is a liquid in some weird shaped vial. Im going to look online and see if I can identify them. I also found another type of pipe that had been used. My husband still seems to be in denial. He isnt planning on doing anything about it, no punishment or anything..he hasnt even told his ex about it yet. He says he is numb...he and I are doing OK, he still loves me after all this and Im no longer thinking of leaving. this is all very stressful on our family. any thoughts of what we should do? Or any advice, is there anyone else that has had a problem like this? thanks in advance.
