BellaOnline Forums Relationships Gay/Lesbian Relationships Hey Im new here and really looking for advice.

I was with my Gf in a long distance relationship for 3 years when she confessed to have been texting another girl behind my back. Before this we had an amazing long distant relationship and she has always been honest with me. when she told me I was devestated and she told me that nothing physical had happened between them, I am still not sure if I believe her or not. Anyway after trying to patch things up with me she changed her mind and decided that she wasnt sure about us. she claimed she needed to try new things as I was her first GF and she was mine but i had been with guys before. So I broke up with her. We have been apart for almost a year now and have remained friends however we did sleep together. She told me a few months ago that her and the other girl decided to just be friends. Im still not sure if anything had happened. I gave her time and space and we've been getting on again. She tells me that she misses me and still loves me but is still confused about what to do. She is curious about other women. I have been in the past too but not enough to act on it and risk losing her. I still love her very much and she is always there for me (family troubles etc). I dont know if I should move on or wait for her to decide? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks :)

Hi rockchick86! I can't give you any advice since I've been married for 36 years, but wanted to say welcome to Bellaonline. Relationships are tough. Best of luck to you in working it out!

I don't know the full situation, but if she's just interested physically, than it reminds me of old Greek myths, where explorers could go and travel and have sex with other woman, even have other children, but as long as they never gave their heart to another, and never loved another, it was alright.