Hi Firegirl I hadn't logged in for a while, and just read your post. Since my last post, the bf and I got married and guess what? He's got custody of his 12 year old daughter!!!!!!! I never imagined he would get custody. I was fine with his kids every once in a while, but now she's here all the time. And since this is relatively confidential, I feel like the life is being sucked out of me. I miss my carefree life. Now I have to pick her up at school everyday, do 'Mom' things....I love my husband so much, if it weren't for him, I'd run.