Debbie,
I loved your article and before even reading it I was expecting that may be I'll find something in your article that I am seeking for, and Yes i did found it. The very first point that you wrote is the best inspiration that you can get or in other words Get inspired by your inner self and not by anyone else. You are you and you have your own unique identity. Nobody can take your place. So the greatest inspiration is within yourself so stop seeking it in the outer world.