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My bf hasn't talked to me in 3 days, and the last time we DID talk, he blew up at me because I was disappointed that he broke a date and I told him so. He then proceeded to tell me I was insecure, that I took [censored] to personally and that when we first met, he thought I was cool, but now he doesn't. Wow did that hurt, considering all the sweet and loving things he'd said before. I was blown away! He sent that email 3 days ago and like I said, hasn't said a word, despite the fact that I sent him several emails trying to talk to him. So, this morning, he finally I M's me and askes what tuesday is looking like, and he can come over from 8:30 to 11:30...nothing else, no I'm sorry, no what ya been doin, nothing! I told him ok, he can come over, but honestly, I'm not sure I'm feelin it anymore..I kinda feel like I'm bein played, manipulated and treated disrespectfully. This man has, up til now, been attentive, emailed every morning and at night,and we've even had conversations about living together. My gut is tellin me something is up, but I kinda want to see him, see how he acts, and confront him in person. Am I making to much out of this, he IS working a lot, he's producing a poetry album that he's writing and recording himself...so he has been very busy. I've been very supportive and encouraging, and, he's told me that if it feels like I'm being ignored, its because of his work. I don't know, I'm kinda starting to doubt myself, thinking that its my imagination and all, but my gut keeps tellin me its not. So I thought I'd come on here and see if there was any advise, opinions, experience, ect. that anyone had to offer or share .

Listen to your gut. Don't ever go against it. If you feel he's up to something, chances are, he is.

How long have you two been together? If it's been more than a year and he's suddenly changed that's a huge red flag.

Let him know that if he wants to say something, then he needs to learn how to communicate effectively. Throwing insults and tantrums are for children, not adults. He could have easily sat you down and talked to you. Emails are a no, no. When you're in a relationship, talking face to face is always best.

Good luck.

Yes, I agree with Jellyroll. Think he's seeing someone else?