"I am just curious and am not sure why you would marry and not have kids."
I'm in 100% agreement with these responses to these questions
-Personally marriage; it's about love, pure and simple.
-Instead of asking "why get married if you don't want kids" you should be asking those questions separately. Why get married? Why have kids? Those are questions that too many people never think about before jumping into marriage and parenting.
-Perhaps the specialness of it (marriage) also lies in that it isn't required anymore.
Granted, Just as in all other areas; the most important decisions in life, culture: may and I'm sure does play a role in how people think, feel and ultimately; why each individual makes their choices.
In 2011 in the United States Women and Men alike (have the option to) choose colleges'. Then (have the option to) choose what profession is appropriate for them. What isn't optional however; is having a means of survival, period.
All of the rest of our decisions are strictly on an individual basis.
- What city/ country one will live in.
- What hobbies and interests one will participate in.
- How one will maintain contact with those they are closest to emotionally; Sharing of blood-line involvement or not.
All people Men and Women alike; have every right to choose; to have a happy and fulfilled life within or outside of a permanent commitment to another, Including the option of having children.
This is freedom of great measure, choosing what suits your life: to your utmost fulfillment. Choose what brings you the most happiness in your life. It is a fact; that the more each individual is fulfilled, happy and vivacious the more each individual has to then share, give back and teach the rest of the population!
Ahh.. Breath it in deeply, it�s called being authentic, authentically who you are! (In my opinion) the largest responsibility we have in life!
Cheers,and many blessings to you. Sincerely, Laughs
Last edited by makesyoulaugh; 02/24/11 02:54 PM.