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I just wrote my newest article to be out Sunday that is a book review, I had stated in my article that I will now gently incorporate a question to my clients when they ask me how is the other person going to change, I will now ask them How are they going to change instead of the other person. Has anyone else had this question when doing readings? I stated in my article that a woman always comes to me to be her psychic spy for her cheating man and a gentleman always asks me when is his wife's behavior going to change about her mood swings while she is going through menopause, even myself, I have asked the cards before how is a particular person going to change. It's not how they change but how we change what is happening to us. Would you be appalled to get the question you asked turned around and put back onto you of how are you going to change the issue?

Hi Karen, Great question, how I would respond; would be with a smile, because your question would be the subtle reminder, of how all things start from within. I wouldn't have a problem, given the circumstance; as I tend to be a -shoot from the hip- kind of lady myself! Peace and Blessing to you. Sincerely, Laughs PS - How about asking in return, - Are you sure this isn't more about how your allowing this person / situation to affect you?

Hi Laughs,

Love the PS, I wouldn't mind if I got that either since I am straight forward as well and if I needed to hear it then by all means let me have it. Lol. My father always told us don't dish it if you can't take it and being the youngest of four, I took it and dished it but it was all in good fun. But that always stuck with me seriously in anything I did in life. I never expect someone else to do something that I can do myself.

But anyways, I seem to be going off on tangents today... Thank you for your response

When I saw the opening question I thought it was going to be more along the lines of this section of "Live and let Die" To see the bit I thought of scroll forward to 12:31 and press the 'play' icon

Lol Ian, I thought of that after I posted it.

Well it's the film that started quite a an interest in Tarot in Mexico at the time that was still going on when I arrived there in '76

As an aside many special ops and intelligence agents do use intuition enhancers such as Tarot in their work. Both to 'see' into the immediate future and to get a sense of the bigger picture.

HA HA.... your question takes me back Karen.

I remember when I was in my early 20s, and got my first tarot deck. I used to always ask about my love interests... what were they doing, were they thinking of me, that kind of stuff. It ALWAYS ended up backfiring on me LOL!

Lol Deanna, yes it does.

I give them just enough information to understand how the other person affects their life and then give the querent information on how "they" need to change if they want something different, rather than the other person.

Caat