Well it has been around 3 1/2 years since I last posted and things have turned to the worse. A year after this post I totally tamed down from monitoring her because of her mother always on me for not giving her room to breathe. Well, one day my wife ask me if I remember her password of our daughters Myspace account, because she was curious, but I didn't. I tried a few passwords that I could remember then finally got it. And the things a read just shocked me! It wasn't things sexual, but things that would make her look easy to any teen. And she was telling these things to boys that look bad. At this time she is a sophomere in high school at 15 years old. Her mother and I both worked and we had to drop her off 45 minutes to an hour before school started and the same time span when we would pick her up after school. So basically she started hanging out with the wrong crowd during this time. Well, I called her mother, who was picking our daughter up from shool, and told her what I read. Then when they both got home they confronted me and my wife ask me exactly what our daughter wrote and I did. Then my wife asked out daughter to go get her laptop and log into her Myspace so she can read it. Well, after several minutes she came down and I tried logging in but I couldn't. She changed her password upstairs before she gave it to us. My wife started yelling at her and finally after a long time she logged in and my wife couldn't believe it. Then my daughter said that someone must have hacked in and said all of those things....MY WIFE BELIEVED HER! And this is where the snowball started rolling. The following is all in a nutshell. We made her cancel her Myspace account, but then she started texting these boys, then I cancel her text option on her phone. Then one night we got "hit" a term we made up. Someone or people egged our cars and left copies of this photo of a very look-a-like of our daughter performing a sexual act on a boy. I totally trip! I began to cry, yell, punch a hole in the wall asking my daughter why. To me I was to blame because I let down my guard and my daughter wondering away and did this. To this day I still tell myself that isn't her. I called the police who came by and took a report. My daughter gave them names of who it might be, and she was VERY quick on giving names. I ask the officer outside if he thinks that is my daughter in that photo and he strongly agreed. Well, it didn't stop there! For the next two years we got "hit" at least twenty more times and each with different photos and even death threats. Now they ended up making fake myspace and facebook sites and putting these photos on them. We don't know who these people is but they seem very upset with our daughter. The local detectives said they questioned alot of people and leads led no where. I put surviallance cameras around my house, we took our daughter out of school and home schooled her, and finally we ended up moving away to another city. I was even made a suspect JUST because I am a step-father. This really hit me hard. I am raising these kids like my own and in my heart they are, I would die for them, but having the police tell me that I am suspect there are no words to describe the feeling. The only thing I am to blame for is not paying more attention to my daughter, I would have caught this before it got to this point. My wife and I kept telling the detectives that that isn't our daughter in the photos, but they say that she had plenty of time before and after school. Ever since this all started our daughter became a home body, she has no friends, she does go anywhere except to work. She is seeing a shrink and counselor for her mental state. She is extemely afraid to go anywhere thinking that people will reconginze her. During all of this we asked her alot of questions and we were shocked with the answers we got, our daughter wasn't the little angel we both thought she was. But if she did do all things things or she didn't there is no reason to terrorized my daughter like this. Nothing has happened in awhile, just hope these sick bastards our done. I just wish I kept to my guns and didn't give in by stop watching over my daughter back then.
