I found this poem from other forum. This is how I feel.

After being broken up so many times.

Are you one of those people who think being single is a personality defect? Do you spend your time looking for a new mate? Perhaps you celebrate being single, but if a prospective partner appears on the horizon, it's a bonus, not a necessity.

There are many reasons to enjoy your singledom Here are 10 of them. See if you can think of any more to add to the list.


1. Ever thought about all those places you wanted to travel to, but your partner either didn't want to go, or you didn't want to leave them behind? Imagine planning your itinerary without having to make compromises.

2. Did previous partners hog the bedcovers? Isn't it great lying there star-shaped with the covers wrapped around you?

3. Being single means you can be spontaneous. No more refusing to go for a drink after work because your partner expects you to be home for dinner. No more excruciating
dinners with his/her family that you can't stand.

4. You get to hang out with the people you like. Did previous partners like all your friends? I bet not.

5. You get to chat with everyone you like to at parties, no more dagger looks.

6. Whether you want another relationship or not, you can have fun dates with people without it becoming serious and get to try new experiences.

7.. You can be as selfish as you like, use up all the milk, all the hot water in the shower and you get to pick the chocolates you like in a box without feeling guilty if you eat your partner's favorite.

8. You know all those little habits you like that you never did in front of your partner? Plucking your mustache hairs, farting, sitting with a tub of ice-cream in front of a good movie. (Maybe you did something else, you enjoy it so much more single).

9. How luxurious it is to wear your comfy underwear? No more scratchy lace, no more tight boxers!

10. Watching exactly what you like on the TV ... nuff said. So come on, tell us all your benefits of being single.


After reading this, I feel great. Not disappointing.