Gwen - Great article, as usual!
Robin, totally understandable.
I would say if you've been unemployed for awhile - you should seriously consider taking the job, especially if there is nothing in the forseeable future. The bills need to get paid. If you need income, sometimes pride needs to move aside.
One the other side of the coin, even if you're employed there are times when you should consider it.
Three times in my life time, I have taken jobs with considerable less pay. I had transfered to an office in NY with a prior job and needed to move back to the NoVa area. I took a $10,000 a yr pay cut to do so. Another time I took a $6,000 a year pay cut because I was switching careers (sometimes you have to step back to move ahead).
The last time I switched jobs 5 years ago. I took a small pay cut - but what did I gain? I work within walking distance to my home - instead of driving 2 hours each way. I can save money by going home for lunch. I get to see my kids off when they leave for school and I'm home 30 minutes after they get out. I get to leave and attend all of their school functions during the day.
Back when I had to leave work because they were sick - it didn't take me 2 hours to get to them. I could run around the corner, grab them from school, take them to the doctor if need be, then home and back at my desk in the 2 hours it would have taken me just to get home.
Funny, before my daughter left for college, she called me one day because she had an EMERGENCY - I needed to come home right away! Well the emergency was that her brand new laptop - that SHE paid for - stopped working. Granted I went home at lunch time, but still it was nice to be close enough to take care of their little "emergencies"...lol...
I guess what I'm saying is take EVERYTHING into consideration.
But in relation to if you're unemployed - don't let pride stand in your way of not losing your home or having your electric turned off.