To further add injury to insult ... my SS hasn't visited for almost 2 months now. He lives with his mother.
DH phoned him yesterday, 'cause same thing happens ... SS doesn't even send DH messages or anything. He's now 16 and SD is 18 (turning 19 soon).
When I told DH last night that I'm sure the bio mother has something to do with this, he agreed. What makes me angry, is that he continues coming up for his daughter, always allowing her to make excuses.
A while back, the bio mother said that SS didn't visit, 'cause I didn't make him feel welcome! BUT in the meantime, we have a wonderful relationship as SM and SS. He really cares about me, but his mother is poisoning him against me mostly.
So at the end of the day, she's doing everything in her power to split me and DH up (we got divorced because of her interfering in our marriage, but got back together as I matured so much during the process ... it was my first marriage and never had kids of my own when we got married).
The ex is a compulsive liar and a real biatch. She got an SMS from my MIL that she didn't approve of and then this biatch phoned my DH and upset him about this [censored]. She's always playing the victim in any given situation.
She also uses SD's Facebook account to "spy" on me ... why is she so freakin' insecure! Why does she spy on me via her child?
Last edited by JustAnotherStepmom; 09/13/10 06:18 AM.