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Some times ago, I was reading a true story about a married couple. In the last, writer conclude, that the woman is like WAX that can be fabricated in any shape by melting it with heat of love. What do you think that a girl of this modern age can be in such a way?

I doubt that many modern educated girls would allow themselves to be poured into a mold like wax, and have no opinion in the matter. That sounds like the bad old days, when women were considered to belong to their husbands and permitted no independant thoughts of their own. That may have been done in the name of love, but it sounds more like slavery to me.

It still happens in this day and age but not as bad as it used to, in the older days where the woman was a baby making machine, cook and cleaning lady. Thank the gods that it�s not like it used to be.

hi................ Talk to girls you MORON!!! respect, honesty, love WOW! You are really on A quest. This is my suggestion: Please yourself, Then if others are pleased then that is good collateral damage. thanks

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Wrong, so wrong ! ...on all levels. Sounds so very stupid to me. What kind of woman would be with a man that even thinks this way?
Pathetic, ignorant thinking !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why would you even post something so rediculous?
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LOL, cream pie!

While you're right, there is some truth to Assad's statement. How many women have changed who they are, put themselves second or lower, sacrificed their needs and desires to please a man? It happens even today. Think about all of those abused women who stay with horrible men.

Women *will* mold themselves to their men's desires when they are in love.

Not all women, of course. But a lot of women with low self-esteem, weak characters and emotional problems surely find themselves in this situation without realizing it!

I once belonged to a Japanese religion who actually preached that the woman was the one who should mold herself to complete the man, that in 99 percent of arguments the woman is the wrong one.

Pathetic, ignorant thinking? Yes! Archaic, to say the least.

The only problem with molding yourself, like wax, is that wax hardens after a while. That's when the woman wises up, looks at her out-of-character shape and thinks, "I don't like this." A misshapen waxed candle is brittle and won't light.

A wise man knows how to allow the woman's light to shine by letting her retain her natural, chosen shape--and how to ignite her fire!

No woman in any day and age can be really "molded like wax", it is just a poetic expression meaning "you can stifle her feelings, crush her dreams, put down her personality and make her behave as you please", which in the past (and in some parts of the world nowadays too), was considered a good thing to do with women.

Hi, have enjoyed reading the above. Maybe you mean ( about the wax thing ) that when a woman falls in love - and a man for that matter, you do things that are out of character. The term - rose coloured spectacles - has certainly applied to me in the past ( ok, not brill when they come off,) but at the time that feeling of love takes away your perspective. Also when a girlfriend is in love, and you think, for God's sake, get a grip, maybe that's what you mean ? I really don't think you can change who you are, and to mould like wax for someone would definately be wrong in my eyes. We all do things to please a partner that you would prefer not to do, for example, go out when all you want is a bath and fluffy jim jams, but to change your personality I think is impossible deep down.

today's woman are not like that anymore. they are more liberal and educated and they wont allow anyone to fabricate them and be called as WAX..

It's true for some women but not all.

Just because someone is educated doesn't mean they can't be manipulated. There's a difference between being educated and being ignorant and naive. Sometimes they're just downright stupid.