I've been dating my boyfriend since June. I've known him for a few years, though, and really do love him dearly. But he can be really, really sickenly sweet. He says things that should make me think, "Aww, that's so cute/sweet/nice,etc," but they just make me roll my eyes or at worst, get defensinve.
I have been on my own longer than I've ever been with anybody, but I have not been idle. I keep busy and contentedly so. The years made me independant in mind and heart, as well as body. I don't feel like I need him like I feel like he needs me and it's making me nervous.
He says he's cool that, for humor and metaphor, I'm the "guy" in the relationship, but these knee jerk reactions I feel to things he says/texts, etc are alarming me. Shouldn't I have some sort of equal response to something like, "As long as you let me hold you hand," or, "I'll be there in no time."
He's just a lot needier than I am and I don't know how to blance it out without coming across like a completely heartless harpie.
So much more to write, but I won't want to post a novel. Any ideas/thoughts? Thanks in advance!