BellaOnline Forums Relationships Gay/Lesbian Relationships Need help with First Love coming back into life!!!

[color:#CC6600][/color]Ok, so suppose you were in love as a teen, a 4 year relationship, only broken up because in general people are ignorant when it comes to same sex girlfriends.... Suppose that you moved away, knowing that if you stayed it would cause her alot of problems.... Then suppose you married (3 times) cause every time you were with a woman you still felt guilty, so you married for all the wrong reasons knowing that all would be a disaster... then suppose you find her on FB, you contact her, she's been in a (no sex f'd up relationship for 10yrs with a woman who had never been (nor wants to now) be with a woman, then suppose she tells you that all of these years she has still loved you and missed you and wants to hook up, you still are in love with her (never stopped) but her current and 900+ miles separate you, ok what would you do???????

well now i just feel bad for all the men you married and misled. marriages are expensive and meaningful!! why get married if you truly feel it'll end in a disaster?? i see a pattern. i think you already know what you want so go get it.

If she's single and your willing to finally be you and come out then go for it. But if she's found new love then you need to let her be. Remember you were also unavailable to her by staying in your marriage(s)