I have been doing a lot of reading on this topic. Domestic Violence seems so taboo but once you scratch the surface there are many faces of both genders and every race,age, and sexual orientation. Knowldge has become the key to my sanity. Anyone looking to read more can read Why Does He Do That? By Lundy Bancroft. I find this book helps a lot... and if anyone has suggestions or links please please send them to me..