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Solalux #605855 06/19/10 01:13 PM
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I agree. Being CF by choice or not, if we don't follow the "norm" in society there is something seriously wrong with us in the eyes of most other people. We are different, to the point of some thinking that CF people are freaks.

I think in a way that we the CF have risen to a higher level of intelligence and responsibility than a lot of people who are following the so-called norm. Judging by the posts here it appears that for the most part we have weighed our options carefully and made our decisions wisely. I think this is a much more responsible way to live our lives instead of following the rest of society, who often don't give the issue of having children much more thought than "it is just the thing to do", or it's what family and friends expect should be done.

I have not gotten the impression from anyone here that being CF was being selfish and unkind. All of us are loving, caring human beings. If anything, we have made the choice that we can be at peace with, instead of having regrets later when our own lives and needs are ignored because we have to dedicated every waking moment to the never ending demands of childrearing.

There are too many stories of abuse, neglect, and poor parenting out there due to people making the wrong choice in regards to having children. It is because these people did not give this issue the attention it deserves for such an important life choice and life "job". Not only do the parents suffer for it, but more importantly, the children suffer for it as well.


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Cassie67 - Oh totally agree like having kids is going to solve their problems, or make their marriage better, or their spouse wanted them. [censored] that! I say FREEDOM and a cleaner world! ------------------------------- Hell Spawn Free & Enjoying Life.

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Thanks for the great laughs!!! A lot of these really cracked me up. And they are SO true too....


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I know right? I have heard so many of them too and im only 21! I have a LOOOOOONG time ahead of me and even if I decide to one day, which im pretty sure won't happen, at least ill know. Its true too that it seems as if i really cant. iv been married since i was 19 and nothing has happened yet. My doc thinks i won't be able to. my ma couldn't until she was 30. That makes me happy as now I can concentrate on college (going to be a weatherwoman/storm chaser) and get my degree, settle down and fully enjoy life. ------------------------------- Hell Spawn Free & Enjoying Life

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Swear bear, I love your sense of humor.

Happy one, you are so correct. People feel they have the right to butt into other people's reproduction with out even knowing the person or their situation.

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