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Am an african guy,my problem is the ladies i date turn me down.am not proud,am well disciplined.kindly advice before age catches toll on me

Turn you down for what? A long term relationship? Casual sex? Another date? What are you seeking?

If you're seeking someone to love as your post title suggests, I can offer a little advice:

Instead of casting a fishing net over a large pool of women, you need to fish with a fishing pole that attracts one fish at a time. Too many men who get desperate throw themselves out into the dating scene, cry to women that they can't find *someone* to love and it is a major turn off.

If you're making it seem as though you'll settle for anyone, that you just want anybody, women will run the other way. A woman wants to feel special. She wants to feel that you want HER and only her and not because you're desperate to love anybody.

Really get to know each woman you date. When one comes along who seems very special to you, fall in love with her. And let her know exactly why she is the one and only woman for you.

A woman has a hard time resisting a man who thinks she is something special. It is flattering. Make her see herself though your eyes and that the view is glorious. Make her feel better about herself; make her laugh and enjoy life when she's with you.

This is a good start.

I believe everyone deserve to be loved not only that you want some kind of benefits from that person,just because you are commited to her.I have taken a long time to settle down,view and analyse situations like"i dnt think s/he love me","im looking for someone who can love me" or "missing someone to love". You are great,handsome and desciplined,why are u being turned down? thers absolutely a reason,maybe: -u dnt show the woman hw much u love her by buying her presents,flowers and taking her out to the restruants or lodges.Beliv me ladies needs to be loved and appreciated that when they will find evry posible thing to satisfy u either in sex or by making u happy somehow. -u ar 2 harsh on them,try to be a bit polite and dnt use words that may hurt the woman. -listen to the apologies and try to be understanding,lets say u appointed and she didnt come and she give u an excuse that"i was tired and decided not to come" reply by saying"yeah,i understand but u could hv atleast called me,bby" USE MY LITTLE ADVICE U WILL C THE BEST OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS COZ IM TALKING FROM LIVE EXPERIENCE

hi.................
if you have a platonic or close friendship with your crush, then try asking her/him on solo dates and see if she/he accept without a second thought.

thanks