Hey, I understand! I've learned to STOP these people in their tracks by putting it on myself, "I feel uncomfortable discussing the details of my reproductive choices with anyone who isn't my husband." As for their rudeness and invasiveness,i refuse to take responsibility for it...lol. If that's not your style...Maybe you can just "yes" them to death...lol. I try to give these people more empathy than they've given me. Some people truly don't mean to be rude, they're just that closed minded or cannot imagine someone wanting a life differently than that the average person chooses (or surrenders to in the case of some). I have the advantage of knowing childfree couples my parents age who lead fulfilling and happy lives. They still enjoy each ther as if they were teenagers. If I aspire to be more like them rather than like the average family, I don't think that I should be demonized or berated for it....and neither should anyone else. To the friend who told you you'd have great kids, I would've responded, "Thank you." I will tell you the "I pray you have an oopsie comment is just awful..You should have told him, "How about praying that I live a long and happy life instead?" Maybe that would've put into perspective what a fool he sounded like for wishing something you don't want on you. I hope I helped you!
Last edited by misstalia; 04/08/10 01:21 PM.