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I had a miscarriage on Jan 25. I have been grieving pretty openly, writing and painting about it. The sadness has been strong, but just recently I started feeling a strong and overwhelming sense of insecurity. Has anyone else experienced this?

I know several people who are still grieving deeply after years. Be easy on yourself - these things take time. The hurt does not go away, but it gets easier to bear. The writing and painting sounds very healthy. Good luck!

Yes, to feel this way is "normal" it's like you failed in some way. I have endured 3 mis carriages, one tubal pregnancy and the drowning death of my 14 yr old son. All this pain becomes bearable with time. Right now, pamper yourself and accept these warm hugs being sent your way. Hugs, WhiteowlwomanFL

I'm sorry for all of you! I had a miscarriage at 9th week! It's dreadful experience. I agree that writing and painting helps a lot.I used to exgange thoughts with people within my country(I am from Eastern Europe), but once I found Bella I couldn't resist writing women in States. What can I say, women who had a m/c are all the same & its ok that your fellings are so overwhelming! I fell the same... but we have to pull ourselves together and start hoping,believing & prepareing ourselves for successful motherhood! BE HAPPY,WISE AND REMEMBER THAT GOD IS KIND AND SOON HE WILL BLESS ALL OF US WITH A ROSY-CHEEKED CHILD !