BellaOnline Forums Relationships Gay/Lesbian Relationships my girl carries pix of her x! WTF!!

we got into a big fight bcas i found pix of her x in her wallet..was a few pictures of girls but since i only know 1 is an x for certain, she only confessed to 1 being an x, and the others friends. she then gets mad becas it means "nothing" and then said i pushed it too far and it was over btween us! we've been together for a lil over 2yrs and this is the first time i look through her stuff. she does go through my fon and wallet btw. and even made me delete a pic i had of a model on my fon AND I even apologized!! well i think this is bull and dont care if she calls me!! but its been a few days and i miss her and realize i do love her a lot, but she doesnt like to communicate. im tired of always bein the one to apologize and askin to lets stay together. she always says i push it and breaks up with me. sumtimes it is my fault and sometimes hers but im always the one to look for her either way...any advise...im so confused ann annoyed by this!!

I don't know you, of course, but it seems a bit silly that she would dump you only over your questioning of the contents of her wallet. Perhaps that was merely a small part of a much larger issue that you're missing. Maybe when you identify it you will understand better that this might not be the best relationship of equals that you could be in.

i agree with bea. sounds like your x used this as an excuse to break up. she hasn't called you either, has she? break-ups are hard! give it time. what im hearing from you is that you're unhappy with the way she treats this relationship. maybe it's best that you move on and find someone that respects your feelings a little bit more.