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My husband doesn't want kids either, which is frankly one of the reasons I married him!

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Wow...sounds like a dream set-up TO ME. You know how much happier and more at ease I would be to be lucky enough to have a husband like that (instead of the one I HAVE who's trying to guilt and/or trick me into pregnancy?)Hell, I'LL take him if you don't want him! *LOL*

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Originally Posted By: Shnicky
My husband doesn't want kids either, which is frankly one of the reasons I married him!


ME TOO, ME TOO - we're both very fortunate !!!!!

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Geez - Every guy I've ever dated did *not* want children. In fact, that's always been my experience - I was so convinced that men in general did not really want children that I nearly fell out of my seat when I found out that my brother's wife was pregnant and that he was thrilled about it. I still wonder about that. :-) Fortunately, my husband and I are completely on the same page about kids. I swear we were written in the stars, that's how similar we are. We both kinda don't want them, but every once in a while, the subject comes up and we just look at each other with question marks in our eyes...as if to say, "Do you think we should???" and yet neither one of us really answers. I think the answer is going to be no in the long run, especially since my time is running out and it's still not something I'm jumping up and down for.

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I know my husband resents me for not wanting kids and not giving him babies. He thinks I am WEIRD. I should have realized long ago that because we aren't on the same page with that issue our relationship would not work out in the long run. I am a little sorry I waited so many years for him to grow up and decide he wants to divorce me. I should have left him a long time ago to go search for all those WEIRD men who don't want to have kids... If my husband had been more mature back when I was in my 30's I may have had a child or two with him, but at 43 I like my lifestyle just fine as it is. My biological time clock is not ticking.......it's been SHUT OFF for a long time!


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