It may be difficult to meet someone younger that knows for certain they don't want kids. When I was in the my early 30's; I was dating and asking the men if they wanted kids, especially when they already had them. I didn't want to close the door on that option just yet. By age 35 I was in love, living with my now husband, and he told me that he didn't want anymore kids. I was so mad at him!! I now had to decide to leave him or not have kids! I thought it was going to be an impossible decision. But, it made me really address the question. I wasn't mad because I wanted kids, I just didn't like that I was already living with him and now he told me. After some long thinking, I realized that I was never going to be "ready" to have kids because it wasn't that important to me. Today, 10 years later, I am so glad that the person that came into my life didn't want kids. I may have just got pregnant without really "deciding" to since it's just "the thing couples do". Today I realize how much my freedom and mobility, as well as peace and quiet, really mean to me. If these questions are addressed in the beginning, I think there is someone out there for everyone. You'll get there in time. MeganMNK
