BellaOnline Forums Relationships Single Life i have a problem

i like guys, love them almost. But as soon as they love me and ask me out. i say yes but in like two days i hate them. i dont love them. whats that all about?

Darci

Darci, I wonder if you love the romantic idea of a guy, then are disappointed when the usually-flawed real thing shows up. Ease off and just try to get to know the male-type person with the understanding that he is a unique and probably wierd creature that you might be able to have fun with now and then but don't HAVE to fall in love with.

interesting. but i have gotten to know them and they are awsome, then date em and they r jerks! !Chicos es muy mal/ anti-simpatico!

Darci

You know I was single for close to 26 years and people would always ask me, "Why don't you have a boyfriend?" And honestly, the answer was I just couldn't find the right guy for me.

It wasn't about their looks, money etc. They were jerks. Jerks that I had no real connection with. I only met one nice guy and I just didn't like him for some reason.

But the first day I met my now husband, it was fireworks from the start. Not physically but mentally and spiritually. I became physically attracted him a bit later into our relationship. But there was just something there. I couldn't explain it but there were just unique things about him that I hadn't seen in anyone else.

I think you're just coming across all the wrong guys.

Perhaps you should write down a list of what you do and don't want in a man. And when you come across these guys, you can automatically check off what you can and cannot put up with. This way you're walking into something already knowing what you want.

Love takes time to find for many. Especially in this crazy time we live in. Just be patient, you will find the right guy eventually.

Thank you! I like this one guy on and off, but hes usually sweet, unlessi dont like him, because hes a jerk. Is that like a guy thing? All of these guys had what i wanted! A sense of humor,awsome personality, and niceness/sweetness. They were all perfect, date em, jerks, break up, jerks, after, semi jerks, look at them again when they tell a funny joke, love them all over again! This is just horrible!Oh well Thanks for the advice, i hope i find the right guy!


Darci

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ok now i like this other guy, hes like 2 years older than me, and kinda outta my league, but we talk and joke around, we are friends.Im not really sure if he likes me, how do i tell?

THANKS!!!!!

Darci:)

[quote=chica13801]ok now i like this other guy, hes like 2 years older than me, and kinda outta my league, but we talk and joke around, we are friends.Im not really sure if he likes me, how do i tell? THANKS!!!!! Darci:) [/quote] Hey, you could like, you know, ask him? lol