Hi everyone,
I'd like your advice and opinions on this! I go to a beauty salon regularly and on my most recent visit earlier this week, I booked an eyebrow wax. The beauty therapist wasn't one of the girls I regularly go to, but she was on her own that day as the owner was recovering from surgery (it's a fairly small salon, and the other therapist just had a baby).
She said that if it was okay with me, she'd just tweeze my brows as she didn't think they needed waxing as there wasn't that much regrowth. I was a little surprised, but I said that was okay - I didn't mind as long as they were tidied up. She charged me the same price as an eyebrow wax - I was telling my sister about my visit and she didn't think she should have done that, as she didn't even use any wax! I should point out that I certainly didn't expect a freebie as I was paying for her time if nothing else, and like I said I didn't care so long as my brows were tidied up - I'm not sure what to think tbh.
What really annoyed me was this: she said my skin looked dehydrated. I'm sure it was, as I was thinking to myself that very morning that I'll have to start drinking more water (I'm chugging some down right now lol). The salon carries product lines, and she pointed out the (pricy) skincare kits, saying they'd be good for my skin. She started saying that she'd like me to come in for a facial, and gave me a salon booklet, where she marked with a pen the particular facial she'd like me to have!
I lost my job recently and I simply can't afford facials, it's all I can do to afford to keep up my waxing! And I must be honest, I know some people love facials but I've never wanted to have one. This will sound weird, but I don't like people touching my face - I don't mind getting waxed cos that's pretty quick! I don't like the thought of a magnifying lamp being shone on my face either - ay ay ay!
Maybe I should have just flat out said I can't afford it, but I don't think my financial situation is any of her business. The whole experience just made me uncomfortable! I don't want to stop going to that salon for several reasons at the same time, one being I have a good relationship with the other two therapists. The staff seem to work flexible/alternating hours, so I can't just avoid going when she's there - I have no way of knowing when this particular therapist will (or will not) be working.
It wasn't till later that I remembered I'd never asked her a single question about my skin! I can understand that as a beauty therapist, she probably can't help but notice the skin condition of clients, but like I said I didn't ask her about it.
Has anyone else experienced this, and how did you respond?