Im sure many of you have seen the movie by now, btu have you read the book? If you havent you should, its veryyyyyy easy reading and it can be a real eye opener. Lets face it, as women we have made some bad choices in men in the past and hell many of us still are, but why do we do it and how do we stop? This book should be every womens bible, wether you are currently single or dating! Greg Behrendt tells us what we need to hear, flat out, without all the sugar coating, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Personally I can relate to many of the things he writes about, yes I have sat by the phone waiting for "him" to call, yes I have made excuses for "his" horrible behaviour, and yes I even laid blame on myself for some.
Greg Behrendt gives us an inside look into the male mind which (like we all suspected) is pretty simple. He forces us to see all the red flags we choose to ignore and he makes us realize that we are worth so much more. He shows us that realizing that the guy that makes us feel bad about ourselves is not the guy we deserve, and kicking that guy to the curb makes it a hell of a lot easier for "mr. right" to find you faster.
Seriously, the book might look and seem like its for 20 something year olds, and it might seem like a bit of a joke. But it really is worth a read. Its for everyone women no matter their age or their relationship status. If you are single read it , it might help you on your next date, if your currently dating someone (even if its been 3 years) read it, it can still help you. Even if you are married, trust me if it doesn't help you now it may later, or maybe you can help a friend. It doesn't take a lot of time to read from cover to cover, and I will say it again even if it doesnt have much use now, in the future when one of those red flags appear you will finally recognize it for what it is.
