I'm not certain how it happened, but this forum was the catalyst for an epiphany for me. I am always extremely disinclined towards all things child, and have been majorly negative and vocal about it. And then I thought...I have the right to dislike babies and pregnancy etc...just as others have the right to like that stuff! Whoa, I like to think of myself as open minded because I wanted to be different, but I wasn't respecting the other options. Now to put my new self into action, accepting others and just moving on with my CF life, wish me luck and let me know what you think.