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I'm surprised, because I live in Germany too, and haven't had any questions or pressure about kids. An awful lot of women I know are childfree, but I know lots of working mums too, and where I live there are a lot of kindergartens. Perhaps it's different in the cities.

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It's not the number of kindergartens - but the quality.

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One person to watch 12 children is not enough to meet the needs of children of this age. Plus: sometimes they are friendly, but sometimes they do not care for the feelings, the needs of the children. E.G. they allow elder children to terrorize the younger ones. Things like this happen. They should not happen - but they happen.

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Well...the thing is that people live in a stereotype. Everyone does - including you. And me, of course. But ours is different from the one of the majority - people, living in the path of their moms and grandmas and great - grandmas etc, having families, raising children, the idea whot the woman shold be and what the man should be and their porpouse for being on this earth.... Everyone wants to get as many people as possible into his stereotype - that's a communal instinct - if I may call it so. Because, when more people think like you and live like you, that gives each one a sence of satisfaction - that you're fit...normal...nothing's wrong with you. And that's what makes a community. When you're different, you're out of the community - out of everything. Which makes you an outsider - in the best case...or a dangerous one - in the worst - in both cases, one that needs to be removed! And that's the way it goes - not since yesterday, not in your case - everywhere! That's why different people have always been hated, persued and isolated - a hatred, based on colour, creed, nationality, sexual orientation etc. - it has never been based on any of that stuff - it's been based on that basic fear of everything different. Think of that - it's nothing personal, you've done nothing wrong, you are not wrong. You're just different and that scares people different from you. And that's it. Az you can see - you're not the only one in this position.

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"Never talk about this again with the people around you..."

Wow. So now do child-free people have the plague or something?

"Keep them all in one spot! They might contaminate us with their anti-children talk!"

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