LOL Phyllis I'm sure the search engines would bristle at that comparison!
Spyware installs on your PRIVATE computer - without your knowledge - and steals your information without your permission.
Spiders index PUBLIC webpages which are on the internet and deliberately there for public viewing. They index that public information in a helpful way. Like a Yellow Pages. If you want your phone # not in the yellow pages, you can opt out, but otherwise it's a public resource. In the same way, if you want your website private, you can hide it.
So spiders are much different than spyware.
Yes, this website is a public website. So posts made on this site are public, are viewable by the public, and therefore spiders can see them too.