BellaOnline Forums Health and Fitness Miscarriage insensitive comments

I had a miscarriage 35 years ago. I got pregnant again right away and had a son in Oct. of that same year. Nearly every day I think about the baby I lost and wonder what he/she would be like today.

I have a co-worker who is pregnant but acts like she's diseased. She just HAD to tell me she was pregnant two days after I found out I miscarried. Then, about a week later she tells me that she envies me! This is my second miscarriage, the first one was a partial molar and about killed me emotionally. I am trying so hard to stay sane after this one that when she said that I really just couldn't believe it!

I had some friends of mine tell me well you should just be grateful for the 3 kids you have. What do you want anymore kids for anyway? Are you trying for a Baseball team? It hurt me so much. This is our 4th miscarriage in 14 years and it never get easier. But when people act like this child you lost isn't important it just rips my heart out. I love my boys with all my heart. But they were not this baby or any of the babies that went to heaven before this one. No one can replace this little one. :(

Oh how completely terrible! I am so sorry for your loss. Some people just can be so rude! You are in my prayers.