Hello hrpuffinstff,
I love your user name! Welcome to the forum and thanks for posting.
You need conditioning treatments first. You may want to purchase treatments to use at home or have an in-salon treatment. Then, a visit to a hairdresser who can shape up your cut. He or she will also be able to fix your hair color. You didn't say what the color problem is but I suggest a demi-permanent color that will add color and shine and will not further damage your hair.