I think it is sad that so many churches are being torn apart over "which music is
better".

Praise music, gospel songs, and hymns are essentially the same thing - songs to praise God.
Different people are moved by different types of music.
Just like in the secular world; some people love country, some rock, some rap. In the church it is the same. Some people are more comfortable with the hymns. They can sing all the verses because they have them memorized from singing them for so many years. Others love the praise music because they can basically offer up their praises to God without haveing to worry about whether they are messing up a verse they don't know.
Personally I think churches should offer both types of music.
Hymns have beautiful words, much like poems that are outpourings of the writer's soul; and I believe that by completely abandoning them we are robbing the youth today of some amazing insights.
But for the older generations to refuse to sing praise songs is dismissing this generation's feelings. True that words in these songs are not as complex - it is more about feelings, but does that make them any less real? We should have feelings and emotions about God. We should get caught up in praising Him.
This is just one more issue that Satan is using to weaken God's people and tear His house apart.
The music should be about Him, not about us.