BellaOnline Forums Beauty and Self Stress Management Dealing with Friends!!!!!!

I'm having a hard time dealing with friends. Overall I'm a sweet person who really means well and never does anything bad to anyone. But I don't have a best friend and always get left out of things. I think its because i care TOO much and need to learn how to destress when small things come up! Any suggestions as to how to deal with coping with the stupid small things in life so I don't stress out over nothing...? thanks

I am actually exactely like you... I just try to be cool when I'm around people and I allow myself to loosen up & show my stressful self only to really close people.

Do you have people you feel safe to be yourself around?

I think you should just be honest with your friend. Tell her you feel left out and you know your sensitive. She probably doesn't realize she is doing it....I'm like you and did this with my friend. The invites came back rolling in. She was just absentminded and didn't include me in things she didn't think I'd like. It all worked out by communicating