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taylor1940 #460505 10/18/08 07:33 AM
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As hard as it may be you need to set the terms of the relationship now. It may be too late since you had sex. But you can stop having sex and set your terms. Nobody ever gets what they want in this life by waiting on others to decide for them.




Originally Posted By: imgood
Hello
I am not being able to keep it at platonic level. He keeps in touch now regularly and spends the weekends over at my place. Its not being only friends we both know. But commitment seems to be an issue. I live in a small place.My desires in a partner are rigid as to same education level, religion and of course good looking and caring. He fits in all. I have no other better options in this country at least. What should I do:
a)stick with him and let the future take its shape(love and be loved)
b)leave him as he is just using me for sex n spending time and be alone
c) force him to commit( which I think I can do)
I am not in much confusion right now as I have had a really nice weekend with him but deep down I do think about the future.
I know its upto one that at what level she feels comfortable, and I don't need anybody's approval. But sometimes when wise people here say some words of wisdom, it changes the direction of life.Thanks again.


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There are relationships when you don't talk but you know someone loves you. I think we are in love, maybe he acted strange that time but now he is totally into me and I can see that. He ignored me in vacations cos he probably was trying to cut himself off emotionally but he could not and he is back. Now lets see what happens in next vacations , its a test of time. As of now, we keep in touch every hr and he takes care of what I am doing and where I am. He never says he loves me but I can feel in his eyes, I never said that too but he can feel in mine, now I didnt talk to him anything about the commitment issues. Not because I am afarid but because I know the situation he is in. His career is far from settled , he needs time. He is loyal and caring, I am giving him time. It may be a mistake but love is worth it. I am ready to bear it. Somehow I am too caring a person, somehow this thing needs time.

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