I'm sorry you all don't get to do all the things that made you fall in love with one another. Jobs, careers, success, children, life itself, can bring a damper into anyone's relationship.

I had a friend in a situation similar to yours and I gave her some advice, she tried it and it worked. Also, several times afterwards with her own creativity, so since you've inquired, I'll give that same advice to you: depending on when he works, should he not have to work on the weekends, try this: your honey comes in on Friday evening, tired, ready to watch the tube and eat the dinner you've slaved over right? Well, try this. Have a bubble bath ran for him with his favorite "hang-around-the-house" sweatpants, shorts, jammies etc... laying on the bed and as soon as he comes in, mind you, look like a rag doll. No makeup, hair crazy and slouch clothes. No tease, at least not yet, then give him a kiss and say

"honey,I've ran you a bath, go in and relax a bit while I warm up dinner". While he's taking the bath, girl, pull out a few candles, light 'em, bring the dinner out to the table with you as the dessert. What I mean is, quickly put on a lil' nightie that'll keep him up "all nightie" and either, after he's gotten out of the bath, look at you twice and hurry and eat that delicious meal you've made or he'll want "dessert" first. If you're good at using the weapon God has given to the woman, he'll never have those jammies, sweatpants, shorts, etc... on too long. Uh, huh.

Sometimes, we women, gotta make men halt and stop to get their attention. Kinda' like a woman crossing the street in a short skirt. It will catch any man's attention for at least a second. CATCH HIS ATTENTION!!
Now, if you have children, work out that babysitting situation early. If there is a hot game on, as I said before, if you "work your weapon" he'll delay the beginning. That way you get some attention, he smiles and can finish off the night enjoying one another. Oh, by the way, once the heat settles, keep the heels, and nightie nearby for him to reminisce on, as he "watches the tube" if he's truly a man, he won't be watching too long. Try it and let me know what happens (without explicit details...smile). Hey, girls, this plan can work on any worknight. By the way, pull this card anytime it needs to be played. All work and no play will bore anyone. Thanks for inquiring. Hope this helps. Bye and happy harvest!
