Hi SS...
I do EFT, but I've never done it on a surrogate, so I'm not sure how that works. I would think that if you are picturing him, and tapping your points, that the gamut procedure would work the same... after all, you are tapping yourself, why not roll your eyes too

I would give it a try and just see how it goes. You know it certainly won't hurt anything.
You may try posting this in the Alternative or Holistic Healing forums under "Health & Fitness." I'm sure there would be someone who would know about EFT there.
Good luck, and I hope everything works out!