I do not find pantyhose hot and stuffy at all. Maybe you are wearing the wrong brand. If you buy the more expensive ones, they won't make your legs itch. Pantyhose are just part of my wardrobe like bras and panties are and I would never go out without wearing those either! Pantyhose just give my legs a more smooth and finished look. Tanned legs are not an excuse to use so you don't have to wear hose. Besides, tanned legs are for the beach, not to showcase when you wear a nice dress and heels. As for wearing stockings, I have never tried wearing them before.