BellaOnline Forums Relationships Single Life I was thinking the other day...

I love my bf but we have TOO many problems and i feel like if he was to be able to get serious everything would be perfect between us...we would get married start a family and everything...i was think the other day after spending a whole day with him that i don't get excited with him anymore. I don't know what it is...i feel like what anm i going to do when im married and then when i have kids and i was thinking about it...im not even responsible enough to take care of a kid lol so now im, confused...i think im just starting to get over him and that's why i feel this way...i mean after all the problems we've had people get surprised that im even still with him lol

HI,
How long are you with your boyfriend? Well, if you had too many problems with him & you are not excited about spending time with him, then why would you want him to get real serious about getting married? It sounds to me that you are not into him much anymore. That might be due to so many problems you had with this relationship. I don't know what they are. But if many of the problems were very serious, that can kill your feelings for someone.

You mentioned that you are not responsible enough to take care of kids now. Then you should not even consider getting pregnant at this time. Especially by a man you are not even sure of. Also, just because a man & woman get very serious & get married does not mean that everything will be perfect. If you have alot of serious problems before marriage then you will have them after marriage. Unless you both work it out. Sometimes problems can't be worked out. Sometimes they can. But it takes 2 people not 1 to work it out.

It sounds to me that you are not into him & you are bored with him. Also the mutliple problems are no good. Take care, Judy K. Chicago.