My hubby and I are, I think, cute people and a good match. We are not models by a long shot and we both carry extra weight. Not a huge amount but weight, none the less. I happen to love guys with some meat on their bones so it was one of the reason that I was attracted to my DH. Lucky for me too, he likes a woman with some meat on her as well. He likes thin women, meatier women, tall women and short women. But, his dating past definitely proves he does not like skinny-minis.
We do however want each other to be as healthy as possible so we try to eat right and encourage each other. Before our wedding, I lost 30 lbs and since we have both been married, we have both dropped weight. I love him through the thick and thin in both situations and body mass.
But I do agree, hygiene is a must! I love when he smells like soap or nice cologne. Its manly and sexy. No one wants a smelly, gunky toothed, crusty haired mate. Eww. Basically, weight is not an issue. I would love him (and vice versa) no matter how big or small he is. I just want him to be healthy and around as long as possible. He is a cutie!