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Yes that is a good way to look at this.....

Since DH and I are childfree:

1. We have more time to spend together, with our friends, with our families, etc.
2. We are able to put money into a savings account every payday and save for retirement.
3. I don't have to drive a "mom" car!
4. We each have plenty of spare time to devote to our own hobbies and interests.

I laughed - I always make fun of Soccer Mom cars! I never want to drive one of those, usually they are mini-vans.

I don't want to wear "Mom jeans" either!!!

Ha ha! "Mom Jeans" I love SNL.

I am happy I don't have a mom-body!

All the body talk is kinda anti-feminism, don't ya think?

Only if you equate female purely with having babies.

I don't at all. If I did that I wouldn't consider myself a woman, and I most certainly do.
I just don't think that anything positive comes out of judging women's looks.

I see so many moms in my town who are pushing strollers and they have perfect bodies! It's amazing how some women are able to be so skinny after the fact. But, this is L.A. of course. I'm finding my mid-forties to be a challenge as far as not gaining weight

I only judge my own looks, no one else's. And yes, there is more important things, but I am happy with my CF body.
And, I am still a feminist.