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you know you can set back and blame society and all but at some point those "moms" have to take responibility for what they allow to happen to there daughters! thats as bad as the "christians" saying the devil made them to it or the Teens that killed people and blamed the rock and rock or video games.

I think it is high time that parents take control of there family and BE PARENTS!!! it is not the TV, Movies or mags that should be raising there kids! they had them they should raise them!!! if Britney Spears parents had raised her instead of letting her handles pasify her and mold her into what ever makes the most money......for them....she would not be the reck she is today!

how many of us had kids our age talk us into things or try to get us to do things that we didnt really want to do? How many of us used the excuse my mom-dad is so mean they wont let me? and all the time we were thinking I am so happy my mom-dad wont let me!
and how many of us wanted to be like the other kids but thought our parents reall was uncool and mean because they would not let us only to see some of our friends drink and drive and get killed or hurt for life because they drank and drove? or saw classmates go to prison or get killed because they were mixed up in drugs?

Where would we be if your parents had went with the crowd and let us do those?

Parents should be adults and make there own desicions weither it is the cool and popular thing to do or not!

as for the men make us do it... Well It is like my cousin says if it has a pu$$y its f@@@ible..... it is a crude reality men really dont care what a woman looks like as long as he can get off. Sure the guy with the eyecandy on his arm wins and the prettier you are the more PEOPLE want to love you BUT (and its a big BUT!) it is the women that are competting with eachother that set the standards for beautiful! In nature the females are not the pretty ones they dont prance and prieen to get a man. Its the man that prances and preens for the prevalige of having the female to mate with. Todays women are so worried about what there hair looks like and how young they can look and how sexy they are because they want other women to look at them and be jelous. how many women have you seen this week that you thought God I wish I looked like her? Men dont make you feel fat or unpretty but women will!

girls that i went to high school with would talk about make up and nails and cloths and then I would set down or get into the convertation and it would change to diets. the skinny girls would talk about how they gained a pound or two this year and how fat they were getting. they didnt think they were fat they didnt need to diet and they werent on a diet. thy just wanted to make me feel fatter and rub it in that they were thin and how they would kill them selfs if they got as fat as I was.

Women need to change! we are the b!tchest, cattiest, crulest of our kind. So until we can learn to be content to be how we are all is lost. the problem will grow and get much worse. We teach our kids to be just like us and they multiply it and teach there kids...there is even a compatition between mothers and daughters and even sisters and friends... I hate to see the day that mothers take there infint girl to get waxed! we already see mothers and daughters and sisters competeing for the same boyfriend watch a soap opra. look around and see how many moms flirt with there daughters bfs or husbands even the x's! it is more commen then you think!

this artical makes me glad I grow up poor! My mom would have thought all that was a waste of time and money! Why wax something that no one is going to see much less touch!

REVOLTING.

I did however break one of my own stylist rules today.. i gave highlights to a child under 10. But it was for her birthday and her sister got it done as well. She was 10 which is the age min for me.

but never will i wax an 8 year iold

Oh...my...God. I couldn't even get past the first page.

I have so much to say but I believe I will hold as much in as possible.

One thing I do have to say is this: Moms who want to "treat" their little princesses to adult processes -- I don't want to hear a PEEP out of you when your now ruined little girls:

1) want more and more and more and more and more and more
2) get knocked up
3) could care less about college
4) turn out to be bratty, bitchy, ungrateful or flighty
5) need the same meds you're taking, blaming their flimsy lives on ADD, ADHD, genes or whatever else is hip that year
6) blame YOU for anything and everything

Moms think they're entreating their little girls to special things, and little girls eat it up. The truth is, these same mothers are more than crippling these individuals...this kind of treatment early on can kill them -- if not in body, certainly in spirit, self-worth, mind, aspiration, morale, and reality.

Why God...why is there no license to breed?!?

After reading that article, I couldn't help but bust out laughing. Talk about high maintenance to the highest degree.

Think about it. False chests, tummy tucks, face lifts. All the men I've ever known have told me if they wanted a barbie doll, they would just go out and purchase one. She's hairless after all. LOL

Hats off to the hairy. LOL

It is disgusting. Mothers like these must be trying to live through their daughters because there is no logical explanation for having this kind of stuff done. Hopefully most mothers have more sense.

That is abuse. What message is this sending to children? I am sure the majority of mothers would find this appalling.

most mothers I know would turn into MOTHER BEARS protecting there girls if someone even made a comment about doing any beneth there daughters cloths much less there underwear!! that is just nuts! Call me old fashion or a prude even but if someone tried to wax my nieces I would WAX them off the face of the earth!

amen!