I have always held romance in my heart as a wonderful, great, necessary thing! I love romantic, thoughtful men. Novels and movies like Jane Eyre are so romantic and I have always dreamed, since I was a little girl, that some day I would meet an Edward Rothchild. However, it is hard to find a guy like that and it has prevented me in the past from finding true love - because I was looking too hard for the romantic hero.