BellaOnline Forums Health and Fitness Mental Health Is there something wrong?

I`ve noticed that there is something that`s different about me that I don`t see in anyone else that`s around me.

I seem to take a long time to develop feelings for people. Both relationships I`ve been in (still in the second one), the guy came to me wanting to take me as his girlfriend. I felt nothing but just friendship towards the guy but went with the relationship anyway. It isn`t until after some time into the relationship that I do start feeling love towards the guy and it grows as the relationship goes on.

Is this really a problem? Should I worry?

You know, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I would consider you cautious, yes - but is this a bad thing in our society these days? Of course not. If it takes you time to process things and develop trust, then whoever is with you will see that it's worth it when they gain it. I would be MORE concerned if you were uninhibited!