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What was the most shocking, desturbing or upsetting thing you've heard a child say? What did they say and how old were they?

I dont have kids but I think the most desturbing thing I have ever heard from a child would be from a kid in the store. she said If there is a God He would let me have that toy like he let you have your F**king man! I would say she was 3-5yrs old. the way she said it was what upset me the most because I think she understood what the F**King meant!!! the mom didnt even blink when she replied "then you can go to Hell!"

how wrong is that?!

I think the most shocking thing I have ever heard was from an 8 yr old.
She has 2 step cousins age 12 and 6 both girls and sisters that have been taken out of a REALLY bad home!
I asked the 8yr old girl what she concerted them Step cousins Cousins, sisters... she thought a minute and said: "they are like long lost distanst reletaves that I wish we never found!"

It is kinda funny because of the way she said it but also sad because she ment it. the 2 girls that live with her have emotional and other problems and the 8 yr old was the baby so... now she is not. they dont get along everywell because the two cousins have never had a real family and are not very sisterly to the other kids so they are "left out" in a way but kinda forsed to be inclued... the girls think that they will get to go back to there mom and that that is how a family should be. they have been abused in every sence of the word so there are major issues there....

It amazed me that she didnt call them a name or say she hated them or that she wished they would leave or anything really mean and that she put some thought into her answer. I know that it has to be hard to share her Sister and adopted brother, mom and adopted father with two of his neices... (the step dad has 2 sons and he adopted his wifes youngest daughter so...i wasnt sure how to word that...)

Years ago, I babysat a 6th-grade girl who shocked me. Outwardly, this girl was one of the most wholesome "good girl" (excellent grades, well mannered, well dressed, well behaved) I knew, so I was shocked the day she let me read her diary.

One of the entries described a night when she slept over at her friend's house, and after the parents went to bed, the two girls watched a rated-R movie. She described her feelings about one of the sex scenes, ending with, "Man, I wish I was that woman getting f**ked!"

Now, I understand that girls approaching puberty will start to think different things and start sexually maturing...but at age 12!?? I was shocked -- not only to hear how easy is it for kids to have access to inappropriate media (and this was back in the days before the Internet) -- but also to view her true feelings on what she had seen.

We never think nor want to admit that kids in what are supposed to be their ages of innocence have these kinds of thoughts, which is why still to this day, I always remind myself of how fragile their little minds are, so easily influencable.

Ah, the fun I have to come. My daughter is just two, so the most shocking thing I have heard from her yet is copying my cuss at an idiot driver.

But some kids I used to babysit, age 4 and up would regularly cuss me out, call me all the f-ing b's in the world.

My colleague's (almost) 3 year old daughter was spending more time with her father - the mother was working long hours at the time - the father is a project manager for a construction company - the site office was not at the construction site so it was fine to take his daughter to work from time to time - she would play in the office.
The parents thought it was working well until she was playing at home - she noticed one of her toys was damaged, picked it up and said, "Oh, well that's f***** - "that really p***** me off" - over the next few weeks there were a few embarrassing incidents - one that I recall was her grandparents taking her to an RSL club for a meal - a group of elderly people were blocking the door - they were trying to get by when the 3 year old said, "get out of the way, you stupid old b*******..." My colleague tells me the words were always spoken in an aggressive manner and sometimes, with an aggressive stance - hands on hips and frowning.
Needless to say she was no longer taken to work - many of the workers would come into the office speaking that way and she had picked it up - she is a very bright child - she was already speaking pretty clearly at 2 - almost 3.
I understand granddad couldn't see a problem - he said to the shocked patrons, "Excuse us, we're with her"....

lol ok I have a little cousin who was about 2 or 3 at the time. we were going to sixflag and she couldnt say it right so it sounded like sex f@g$ instead...she also could not say Truck with out it coming out like F**K.. she the clerck at the motel asked her what her plans for the day was and she replied in a very adult manner " I am going to ride the F**k and go to sex F@G$ and ride on the big girl rides....! the clerk nearly fell over LHAO! also the same little girl and you would really have to know our family to really love this one! our family does not go town to town or city to city we go walmart to walmart! with this in mind it was about 3 am and we pass a walmart my dear cousin sound asleep and worn out set up and cheered "Walmart walmart thats our store we shop there 'cause we poor!!" then laid back down and was sound asleep again. how she knew that there was a walmart that we was passing i have know idea... she is now 18 and would kill me for telling the story!!!

also another story about cousins....
me and my aunt was watching her great neices ages 4 and 3 and 1yr. we had been playing outside in the wind with the 2 dogs and mug puddles and the tramplin... we were all sitting on the tramplin and eating watermelon and you know how messy watermelons are... so picture this we have dirt all over us black marks from the tramplin and tangled hair and dog hair stuck to us... we did have the girls wash there hands before eating but now we are covered in watermellon juicy... the baby is loving it and giggling happily eating this watermelon that if her mother had found out we let her have she would have killed us because she was just now up to baby food in jars... anyways the 4 yr girl is a tom boy and loving this because no one is makeing her sip tea or be a good girl...(she is a cousin of the other two sisters..and her grandma babysits and thinks girls should sew and play with dolls not get dirty... yeah...i know) any ways that brings us to the 3 yr girl who is very prime and proper and has little bows in her hair and curls that are tangled and long forgoten and she says "Nap kin plooze" so we hand her a paper towal. she dabs danitly at the corners of her mouth! and smiles! now she was covered in watermelon juice and dog slober, mud and tramplin black marks and hair and mess and she looked like a royal princess dabbing at her mouth plus she had paper towal stuck to her face because of the watermelon...
You could not help but to laugh! then her mom came and got the trio three hours before we had planed so no time to wash them up right? Mom asked the girls what they did and to them tell the story of the day was fun because the the two older ones told the story in two different ways one with a tom boy slant and the other a pretty pretty princess POV and the baby she just said play and fun ma ma ma play!!! needless to say a great time was had by all....

LOL, well, the most embarassing moment I had was when my middle daughter was about 4. We had talked about the hazards of smoking, and when they say someone smoking they would ask why they would smoke if it were so bad for you. I had no better excuse than "well, their Mommy must not have told them is was bad for them."

One day we were walking into the local Safeway, when she saw a man standing outside smoking a cigarette. She marched up to him, put her hands on her hips , tilted her head back to see his face and said "Didn't your mommy tell you smoking was bad for you???" I could have crawled under the pavement. I just kinda shrugged and he put the ciggy out real quick. LOL






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lol aren't kids hillarious little spounges.

I remember when my daughter was five and her and I went into a convenience store and I was at the deli getting us sandwiches and my daughter kept tugging at my arm saying "Mom" over and over again. Finally, I asked her what it was she wanted as the gentlemen was ringing up the order and she said "Mom, that guy has a gold tooth in his mouth". The man looked at her and said "Do you want it"? I was so embarrassed. lol The man seemed almost offended.

This was more funny than disturbing, but perhaps that was because it wasn't by my child. At a pool party one day a family friend of ours was swimming with a five-year-old nephew of ours. This friend teased the boy by striking a pose and saying "ain't I sexy?", and he responded by making a face and saying, "disgusting!" He was of course immediately sent to "quiet time"!