Thank you Dr. Phil!!! lol

I must agree with you on the account checking. I drive myself crazy when I check it so I try my best to stay away from doing it. I've never been the type of person to go through my husbands or in previous relationships to go through their accounts, phone or anything else. I do it because I would hate if someone did it to me without me knowing. But your right.. it's the thought (for him) that I can check any account whenever.

I do truly believe he is sorry for his actions since he is the one that is willing to do anything to make me happy and make our marriage work. Everything is different over the phone though. He will be flying here tomorrow and that will be the real test. If I feel that I can continue once I see him and spend time together then it will work if not then it's done. We will see what happens.


"Always expect the worst, and you will never be disappointed". - Peter Wastholam