Excuse me? If I had wanted to sort through all the stuff google coughs up, I'd have done it. Being an intelligent person, I chose to ask friends. I have just spent the past half hour reading the terms of service, the Buddhist forum rules, and the faq's. I found nothing to support your opinion. However, I did find a rule stating all posts must stay on subject. I started this thread asking for suggestions for learning more about Buddhism, not on how we can jump on alexandra. I, also, found rules about harrassment of other participants. Get my point? Now, as I said before, Jeanette will handle it if there is anything to handle. I'm betting the owner of Bella won't be siding or agreeing with you. It only stands to reason that if I heard of the other here, I'll be mentioning Bella there. Word of mouth equals free advertising. Regardless, I've seen lots of links to other websites, but I've never seen anyone else criticized for it. I think this is more of the crusade against Alexandra and I don't appreciate it interferring with my enjoyment of Bella! Sue